Today I came out of the house to walk the dogs and I found a big surprise. In 2011 when we had the concrete replaced in front of the house, Tracy and I carved our initials and the date in the concrete. Today my initials were painted over. Tracy's initials were still there and so was the date. Who do you think did that? Yesterday my initials were there.
That means that Tracy was in front of the house, violating the restraining order. Or some random person covered my initials. I called the police and they came over to make a report. They convinced me to get security cameras in the windows. They told me that painting over my initials and violating the restraining order is an act of serious anger. Tracy has nothing to lose so she is willing to risk going to jail.
Then I find out that Tracy called my step-mother to ask her to talk to me and ask me not to throw away her stuff. Another violation of the restraining order. Tracy is not allowed to contact any friends or family to have them contact me on her behalf. I am also not allowed to contact her family to contact her. We are supposed to be leaving each other alone. She is only supposed to be talking to my attorney.
I have one family member who keeps offering to help by calling Tracy's family and getting them to contact Tracy to help her to get her boxes out of the house. I appreciate the help but she is going to get me in trouble by being so helpful. I don't want to go to jail for violating the restraining order.
It is all so stressful. I just want this over. She needs to move on. I need to move on. I need the boxes gone. I need to be able to reorganize when the boxes are gone. I need a vacation. I need something. Less stress.
more to come...
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