ITEMS AND INVENTORY

When I boxed up all Tracy's stuff, I had to inventory and photograph all the stuff.  I have to admit that I didn't inventory every single item.  I boxed up clothes and wrote down clothes from dresser in bedroom.  I took a photo of the items in the box.

There were 78 boxes plus some items so it took two days to box up all the stuff, inventory it all and take the photographs.  And this was with two people.  It didn't help that half way through the first day, I dropped the camera and wiped out the photographs.  We had to open those boxes and retake the photos.  That put us back a bit.

After we were done, I typed the list of the boxes.  I sent it to my attorney and she sent it to Tracy.  This was supposed to facilitate Tracy coming to pick up her boxes.

Days went by and then Tracy called my attorney to say her email was not working or she lost her password or her iPad wasn't working or some excuse so she could not access her email and see the list.  My attorney tried to explain that she could access her email from any computer but Tracy got upset and unreasonable.  My attorney tried to get her to tell her a friend's email address but Tracy refused.  Then she tried to get Tracy to give her an address.  Tracy refused because she said she was homeless.  I think she is probably homeless but also paranoid and mentally ill.

Since there is no way to contact Tracy, I am stuck with her contents until she can be sent the inventory and a letter telling her she has 30 days to get the stuff out of my home.  Every day I have to see the boxes in my garage and in my dining room.  Ugh!

Just another way to continue to abuse the relationship.  I understand that she is probably homeless and stretched for money.  But I would honestly pay for a storage facility if she would just go rent one and get the crap out of my house.  But I refuse to once again "take care" of everything for her.  I will not hire movers, rent a truck, move her stuff to a storage unit that I pay for while she sits back and takes advantage of me once again.  I will stare at that stuff every day before I do that.

more to come...